Many think that we need to have a big presence to be seen, noticed, or remembered. Yet, this miss-belief distracts us from what is most important. We were granted the opportunity to live our lives so that we can share the essence of who we are with others. It is not the large and bold that has the greatest impact in this life, it is the action of love and support that others will come to cherish. It is this space that allows for the opportunity to sit and enjoy the beauty, without distractions.